If a challenge surprises you, if you are e.g. asked if you can assume the leadership of a group, if you are offered another job or if a move is imminent, what do you think? Do you think first, what shall I do? Will I manage to do it? Not bad questions but a better one could be: Who could help me, together with whom could I tackle the challenge?
Livinglifeasart faces challenges calmly for two things are certain:
First of all, challenges are something normal in life. They are part of it and imply learning and maturation processes. Secondly, you don’t have to cope with tasks all by yourself but should use synergy!
Who could help me? should be an automatic question. God doesn’t have lone fighters at work, in leisure time, in church, in the family in mind.
He sees everybody at least as a pair.

The Old Testament tells a remarkable story ( 1 Moses 11): The building of the tower of Babel. There, God asserts – I emphasize: God asserts – that the inhabitants of Babel share the same sense and therefore nobody can deny them anything.
But as their sense aimed towards something harmful God set about disrupting this unity by confusing the tongues.
God knows: Unity doesn’t only make strong but it accomplishes more than the sum of individual achievements.
One often cited example: Let’s say an ox pulls a ton. How many can two oxen pull? If they pull in the same direction, more than two tons, maybe 2.2 tons.
This “surplus gain” is called synergy and synergy is considered a principle of creation that can be observed everywhere.

Of course, this also means that God is on our side for he wants to contribute his own part. He basically always does something whether we notice it or not.
When this became a certainty that I am never alone, the “calm during the storm” can arise.
We face up to the challenge, with the authority as a human being, as a me, as the child of the highest. We keep up, we do not avert shamefacedly, we do not suppress. We want to see.

Imagine the possibilities we have if we don’t isolate ourselves! The unimaginable becomes imaginable! The impossible can become possible!
We can ask ourselves about different ways of support:

It happens rarely that I perform a task all by myself. Most of the time I am already integrated in cooperation and synergy without noticing it. And still, the question about synergy is always worth asking.

Once we resolved who could help us, something else becomes necessary, that is to become one with this second person so that we pull in the same direction!
A few conditions are required for this.

When challenges turn from contrary wind into following wind I am able again to look for beautiful things or create space for beauty.
And the act of collaboration itself, to find each other, to enjoy progress and partial successes and just being together is normally also something beautiful.

Livinglifeasart Exercise:

Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success. Henry Ford

The one that prays gets a second person on board. Clemens Bittlinger

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